Category: Life lessons I learnt from strangers (friends)
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#Lesson 31 :Being yourself is not that difficult
”I do not know how to be myself.” ‘‘It is very easy” ”Everything is easy for you ,You are 8 years old!” ”Yes,but I can tell you what my father told me.” With puppy eyes she said,”Stop crying Rae mamu,I know this will help you.” ”Okay what is it?” I mean what was it that…
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#Lesson 30:Just because You are angry does not mean it gives you the right to be mean
I know that rage that gets inside of you when you lose control over your temper..but what has it got to do with those who have nothing to do with it? There are very few people who know your flaws and still think you are fabulous..very few…so few that you will not run out of…
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#Lesson 29 : Don’t make it a big deal
If you are looking for an atlas with feet who can laugh at you (or sometimes with you) kindly contact my serbian best friend…seriously that guy can pass being a living atlas anytime..! Every time I see him, I get a bit of direction of where I should be This guy who has seen much…
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#Lesson 27: If you see him in your future son,he is the one
”But how will I know if He is the one?” ,I asked with a question mark in my face. With kind eyes and patient lips she said,”It is very simple,you will just know.” (How is that possible to ”JUST KNOW” I mean if I just knew stuff I guess I would be god…so getting…
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#Lesson 26: Not everyone you lose is a loss
Sometimes when people leave ,they leave you with a heavier baggage than the one you were carrying before. You go around with that baggage hoping that their absence would only be replaced by their presence but most of the times it is not so. When some people leave,they leave you with a lesson..a person with…
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#Lesson 25 :Fascination is not synonym to stupidity
”Why do you talk this way?” ”What do you mean talk this way?” ”I would have respected you more ..” ”What do you mean you would have respected me more?” ”You know you talk like an immature little kid when I talk to you personally but in your writings you seem wise.” ”Well…I would rather…
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#LESSON 24 :The things you laugh at define you.
I was 19 when I decided to focus on myself. Of course it is scary to suddenly start focusing on what you can can’t when you are so used to being told what to do and how to act to prove your decency.(*I will call ”him” ”them” because he was everyone in my world at…
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#LESSON 23:You Always need MIRROR(s) in your life.
The thing is I need constant reminders for whatever I do.I am not that easily motivated and if I do not see results I tend to be ,”See this was never going to work ,you never had it with you!” I know this is not a ”Brave” person’s way of things but then again who…
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#LESSON 22:Sometimes ask Why NOT? instead of WHY?
I know sometimes the ”why?”s fills you with doubt instead of hopes. It has happened to me,I have asked why and had a mental breakdown for weeks. So someone who knows how to calculate taught me that you can’t exactly calculate the amount of risk you might have to take.The fact that everything is based…
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#Lesson 21: Be Grateful
It sounds so simple,”Be Grateful” but to really sit and appreciate whatever you have without seeing the flawed parts of it is something that is challenging. Trust me I have been through that,it seems it is worth all your attention until you have it…new phone,friendship…relationship…love…new laptop…new shoes…new watch..people..many of us find it difficult to appreciate…
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